Reasons Why Kids Become Bullies and the Effects of Bullying.

 

    In part of our readings this week, I was intrigued to search more about children, the effects of bullying, and why kids become bullies. In the book, bullying is a power imbalance. Usually, those bullied are perceived to be overpowered by the bullies. In the article, bullying is intentionally tormenting physically, verbally, or psychologically. It explains many reasons children become bullies, and there is a good mixture. Those who over-power others do so to feel in control and more important. I think a given scenario for why some children bully is the way they have been treated, hence the want for control and power. Unfortunately, most children act or treat others this way because this is the example set at home. Many homes aren't perfect, and abuse and mistreatment can lead to a kid becoming a bully. Many mental disorders can become difficult for a child to cope with regardless if they are the victim or the bully. 

    It is essential for parents at home to create a supportive environment and have secure attachments for their babies and children. The effects of bullying can become tragic if not handled seriously and with care. Mental disorders, depression, and anxiety can also be effects of bullying, and they are not exciting situations to be a part of. Parents can take precautions and actions to prevent and even stop their child from becoming the victim or the perpetrator. "Gatekeeping" is not always a bad thing for parents to do. Sure, parents can go overboard sometimes and be overprotective but keeping a watchful eye on kids is essential to lighten issues socially for their kids and watch who they are around as well as what happens at home. Something parents can do is be a listening ear. The simplest things are sometimes the most beneficial. 

Article Link: Helping Kids Deal With Bullies (for Parents) - Nemours KidsHealth